Thursday, October 19, 2017

Life Nowadays

I really love Facebook's memories that pop up every morning. Most days I feel all warm and fuzzy seeing pictures from years ago of my husband and I pre-kids (so young and rested), or pictures of my kids when they were just so tiny and new. But there are some memories that just make me laugh...or cringe. I couldn't help but laugh when I saw a memory from a few years ago when we just had ONE kid. Ha. I made her a lunch  that consisted of grilled lemon chicken served on a bed of riced purple cauliflower and a steamed vegetable medley. FOR LUNCH! Who was I?? The mom in me now could cry laughing...pardon my honesty here but, there's no way in hell my kids could wish to eat something so healthy unless its from dinner the night before (prepared by their father) or from a restaurant. Now my kids consider it a special day to get frozen gluten free chicken nuggets. As if my saying they’re gluten free makes it any better? Whatever. Makes me feel less guilty, okay? ;)

Looking back at how I felt in that moment of having one child, life was hard. I was drowning in the newness of the role of being a mother. I worried about everything my daughter ate, did or didn't do. I was filled with fears, regret, hormones, exhaustion and disappointment. I suffered from postpartum depression. Until this point I didn’t believe postpartum depression was real, I honestly always thought it was an excuse for the weak. I couldn’t have been anymore off. I was in the hardest season of my life this far. No one can prepare you for that. No amount of advice, books, or warnings could have prepared me for the hardness that was headed our way. Everyone talks about PP depression now, but I find that there's still a lack of normalcy to it. I never wanted to admit that I felt sad fulfilling this role somedays, or felt insanely angry on others. I absolutely dreaded the loneliness that nighttime would bring. I hated being alone at night with a baby who screamed her head off nonstop no matter what I did. I hated myself even more when I would lose my temper and say hurtful things to the kid I am supposed to be loving and nurturing.

I am pregnant with our third kid and am so thankful for this, but most days my husband and I wonder how we could possibly add another human to our chaotic life. (Major hats off to you parents who have an army of children) 99.9% of the time we feel as if we are just barely getting through the day successfully only to go to bed exhausted knowing tomorrow brings the rain all over again. But what keeps me going is constant prayer and knowing that I am in this with my homie Jesus and my awesome husband. We are a team. Over the years, we have grown to be a seriously solid team that can accomplish anything. There may be somedays that we are lucky to high five and kiss as we head out the door, but I know we are in this together and that makes us stronger than any amount of tiny humans seeking to suck the life out of us. ;)

So that picture of the fancy lunch I posted for my daughter on that successful day wasn't fully honest. Those who are close to me know my struggles with this, but for those who aren't and see me post happy pictures-here's the real story behind it all. I may have nailed a solid lunch, but what that post didn't show was a mom who was terrified and desperate to hear that she wasn't alone. If any of you read this and know what I am talking about, I high five you and give you a gigantic hug. You're not alone...and having those thoughts doesn't make you any less of a mother. You will overcome it. I did, with lots of prayer and effort. There are still days where I  wake up to hear the crying moans over the baby monitor and just wish that I could skip the day or checkout already. I think,  "You just slept all night, how can you possibly be waking up crying?!"

There's nothing wrong with you feeling that way, and I find it super encouraging when others can be honest in their struggles and makes me feel as if I can continue on with my day with a smile knowing we are in this together. We can take advantage of social media to build relationships with those around us who are in similar stages of life and build each other up. Raising another human is a hard job, but there is no one better equipped to do it than you. God chose you to be your baby's momma, not anyone else. So own that role and picture yourself on the craziest-most fun roller coaster ever...sit back and enjoy the ride ;)!

This better not be foreshadowing...

Thursday, May 11, 2017

Dealing With Eczema in Kids

I should title this blog post something more along the lines of eliminating eczema because that it just what we have done! Both of my kids and myself have struggled with bad bouts of this. My daughter thankfully grew out of hers right around her second birthday. I struggled with it most of my childhood life, and like most, "grew out of it" with occasional dermatitis issues as an adult from being exposed to different chemicals at work. My son on the other hand hasn't been as fortunate to have it resolve on his own. His actually got so bad that we were unable to manage it on our own. His skin at any given time would be lit up like the fourth of July! Anything we tried to put on it or do to help seemed to make it worse and it covered almost his entire body minus his head and feet. Knowing how painful and itchy eczema is, it broke my heart to think of how he must have felt on his worst days with it covering his whole body. I am kind of wishing I would have saved the before pictures of his skin, but they were way too sad to keep. I knew I would't ever want to remember those moments.



We tried what the pediatrician recommended (applying ointment and topical steroids twice daily for two weeks-which also came with great warning as prolonged steroid use isn't optimal), changed up laundry detergents, sun exposure, adjustments, supplemented with vitamins...you name it, we did it. Some of these changes would show some relief, but it would always come back with vengeance. We had labs drawn to test for true allergies, and all came back clear. The pediatrician explained that just because he isn't allergic to any foods doesn't mean that he can't not be sensitive to certain foods. She recommended we see an allergist for further testing.

I knew that muscle testing (applied kinesiology) had miraculous results for me, so this was the route I finally took with my boy! It was just a matter of finding someone who I could trust and did this on babies. It was quick, totally painless (best alternative to being exposed to major triggers and chemicals with an allergist) and worked like a charm! The chiropractor informed us that every one and every body is different, but that most eczema is worsened by two main food groups, wheat and dairy. Although we primarily don't consume these foods, he was still getting enough exposure to these things that it was making his skin a total mess!

He tested sensitive (not allergic, that's an entirely different testing process which we did do through our pediatrician) to the following:

-Rye
-Dairy
-Wheat
-Soy
-Corn (found in many gluten free options, so read the labels!)
-Peanut Butter (he used to eat PB in massive spoonfuls...shhh)

It hasn't been even a month since we eliminated all of these foods for him and his skin is clear! No more itchiness, fussiness, crazy sensitive skin. As a parent of a kid who suffers from eczema, you know what a relief this is!

I will continue to keep our skin care protocol for patients with eczema and do the following:

-bathe him in the gentlest of cleansers
-use lukewarm bath water
-use my hands to cleanse him rather than a washrag
-apply a lotion that I make (2 ingredients) on him 4 times a day to keep his skin moisturized
-give him plenty of healthy fats and Omega supplements to nourish his skin from the inside out.

All of these are things that I did prior to the diet change as well. I would love to hear your stories and testimonies, too!

Sunday, April 30, 2017

Essential Oil Starter Kit

I started using essential oils right around the time that I had my first baby. I had jumped on the all-natural bandwagon about a year prior and knew that using essential oils was a necessity for completing this lifestyle of ours. I needed support, because life happens and traditional medicine wasn't my first choice anymore. Essential oils are truly a gift from God! 

FAQ

What are essential oils? They're the life blood of the plants. They're distilled, cold-pressed or resin tapped to create the oils that we use on a daily basis.




What do we use essential oils for? For everything. Really! Whether you're looking to support sleep, boost your immune system, DIY products to replace chemicals, clean, increase energy, support healthy skin & hair, replace candles & chemically filled wall plug-ins, calm emotions, give courage, support healthy hormone levels, chill-out fussy kids...if you've never heard this saying before, let me be the first to tell you that "there is an oil for that!!" 

Why should I choose Young Living essential oils? I am honest and open and I look for the same with the companies that I purchase from. Young Living is just that and more. They have been around for decades, and are the world leaders in essential oils for a good reason. They have a Seed to Seal process that is unmatched. There isn't a single company out there that can vouch that they follow the same standards that YL has created for their creation and production of essential oils. They own their own farms and can therefore control the entire process from selecting the seed, planting, cultivating, harvesting, distilling, testing for purity and production. They go as far as testing the oils to discover the best time of year & time of the day to plant and harvest the plants to create the optimal chemical constituents of the essential oil. If an oil in the production line doesn't match their standards, they don't produce it. They don't use glucophosphates (chemicals) to treat their plants, rather they hand weed or use their own essential oils to reduce weed growth. You and I can go and tour any of their farms and see how it's done. They are a transparent company and produce truly top quality oils. When you get a bottle of let's say lemon oil, you know that what you're getting is 100% pure, unadulterated therapeutic lemon oil. 

How do I use them? There are 3 ways to use essential oils: ingestion (ie. a drop of lemon oil in a glass cup of water), aromatically (ie. using a diffuser, letting a couple drops hit the palm of your hand and cupping over your nose & mouth, or simply just inhaling an open bottle), and topically (rubbing on your skin using a carrier oil-[an organic, unrefined oil used to dilute the essential oil to slow and aid in proper absorption])

I'm so clueless & overwhelmed by all of the oils. How will I learn? I make it a point to walk this oily journey with you from the start. When I first started using EO, no one taught me how to use them so they sat in my cabinet for years (they never expire by the way :) and so it is my mission to make sure that you don't make the same mistake I did. Upon purchasing your own starter kit of YL essential oils, I will provide you with a welcome package full of goodies to put your new oils to good use! I will add you to exclusive groups on Facebook that are full of information and guidance and allow you to have access to oil support 24/7 through an awesome community of people. 

What should I start with? The Premium Starter Kit is just as it sounds. You will get 10 of the most commonly used EO, a bonus top-selling oil called Stress Away and your choice of a diffuser (plus many other goodies and information). You'll be getting over $300 worth of product for only $160. YL has discounted the starter kits so drastically, I believe, in hopes to make it affordable for us to get a start on living a chemical free lifestyle. Oils are the perfect gateway to starting this natural journey!

You can go here to learn more and purchase your own essential oils. Upon receiving your kit, you receive membership which gains you 24% off retail price and you'll join a super supportive and oily community that will greatly bless you on this journey. There is no monthly shipment (unless you select to receive oils and products on that basis). If you are interested in learning more about the oils and the company as far as the business side of things goes, I would be happy to share that blessing with you as well.

Any suggestions made on this blog are very specific to Young Living essential oils and should not be used with oils from another source. Statements made on this website about Young Living Essential Oils have not been evaluated by the FDA. These products and information are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease. Anyone suffering from disease or injury should consult with a physician. If you are currently on medication, please do not stop.

Saturday, April 29, 2017

Cleaning House, Naturally

As I sit here taking the time to share about how I clean my home without the use of synthetic & harsh chemicals, I am also ironically letting the bathtub fill up to soak and clean because a certain sick little baby (not going to mention any names here) decided to puke AND poop in the bath tonight. Super fun cleanup.

I am a type-A personality, total neat freak, and on any given day would likely choose to clean my house over hanging out with my kids. It's nothing to brag about, I know I have a serious problem! I am learning to find a healthy balance.

What I really want to share was how we use essential oils to clean our home from top to bottom. I have replaced every single cleaner with just these three things! Best part of all is, there is no need for me to lock the cabinet under the kitchen sink.

Deodorizing
Because we are in the thick of living the toddler life with two young kiddos, our house at any given time throughout the day pretty much looks like a tiny-tot version of a fraternity on a Sunday morning. There are greasy handprints on everything, half-drank sippy cups all over the floor, undressed baby dolls tucked in random spots on the couch, smeared food on every surface below knee level, random wet spots that you keep stepping in, and bits of leftover food found in any corner of every room. Add two large dogs to this hot mess, and it is a recipe for an aroma that just can't be duplicated if you tried. I have a nose that is comparable to that of a bloodhound and find myself complaining over smells all day long. The essential oil blend that has without a doubt saved my sanity, is Purification. It's a blend of citronella, rosemary, lemongrass, tea tree, lavandin, & myrtle oils.

We put this in our diffuser with a couple drops of lemon essential oil and not only does it completely eliminate the odors, but it smells amazing! It is my all-time favorite diffuser recipe and receive so many compliments when people come over. Other ways we use this beauty is:
  • Several drops in a glass spray bottle and mist the dogs (bug, flea & tick repellant), dog beds, sheets, rugs, & pillows to eliminate odors
  • Just about every morning I put a drop or two of Purification in the kitchen sink and disposal to ditch the stench
  • Mix in a glass spray bottle & use this as an all-natural bug spray for ourselves
  • Place a couple drops on a wooden clothespin and clip to the vents in my car
  • One drop in a vase with flowers to extend their longevity



Scrubbing
Cleaning the sinks, toilets, stovetop, oven door and extra grimy countertops requires a little grit. I so appreciate this scrub for the fact that it smells amazing, gets the junk off and kills the germs! I use a recipe of baking soda, Thieves Household Cleaner, Lemon oil & distilled vinegar. I just mix these together and store in a large glass mason jar. This is something that is also kid friendly. This fact alone is another reason why I will only use natural cleaning options. I want my kids to learn to do household chores, but wouldn't ever let them touch or breathe those chemicals of traditionally used cleaners. Now there is no excuse kids, put your back into it ;) 

Wiping, De-germing, All Purpose Cleaning...because kids
We use the Thieves Household Cleaner on EVERYTHING else that the above doesn't cover. Stained carpet? No problem. Stainless Steel? No problem there. Glass, mirrors, windows, hardwood floors, leather couch, stained clothes, cabinets, toys, countertops, tile, laminate...doesn't matter what it is...this stuff is incredible and can handle it. I didn't discover this cleaner until last fall and am honestly pretty upset no one told me about it sooner. If you knew about this cleaner and didn't share it with me, shame on you for keeping it a secret. As a recovering cleanaholic, I can't shout from the rooftops enough about this schtuff!!! :) I feel almost guilty to mention that it's ridiculously cheap too because it sounds too good to be true. I use this stuff probably 100 million times a day and am still on my first bottle of this stuff. It's a concentrate, so all you need is a capful in a spray bottle and fill the rest of the bottle with water. Pretty awesome, right?


I hope that you find this info helpful if you are looking to make the jump to cleaning naturally, but may be hesitant...let this be the push you need. I promise you, you won't look back!! You can learn more details on getting these gems here or can follow along on my IG account to see more ideas of how we use them in more ways than just cleaning!





Thursday, February 9, 2017

Dinner for Picky Eaters

Hey guys! I apologize for it taking me so long to post this recipe (I shared it on my IG account last week), but I will try and keep some recipes coming for you! I wanted to share a simple, delicious recipe that our family has been using on repeat lately. This is great for families with picky little ones especially when it comes to eating vegetables. Both of our kiddos love these so much and I hope yours do as well!

Sous smiley chef

Ingredients:
2 lb extra lean ground turkey
1 head of organic broccoli
Lots of Flavor God lemon garlic seasoning
Dash of Himalayan sea salt
1 tbsp of organic olive oil
*optional: splash of Bragg's Liquid Aminos


(If you don't have a lemon garlic seasoning, you can use spicy seasonings or even just salt and pepper. I prefer my food spicy, but often leave the spice out so the kids can enjoy as well. This makes a lot of turkey meatballs, so you can reduce with 1 lb turkey and 1/2 head of broccoli)

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Break the broccoli into small florets and place in food processor.

Process the broccoli until it is in a finer (rice-like) consistency and dump into mixing bowl.

Add ground turkey, seasonings, salt and olive oil. Mix all ingredients.

Scoop out into balls on a cookie sheet lined with parchment paper.

Bake at 350 for about 15-20 min (less or more..cook until turkey is cooked through when cutting a meatball in half)
These aren't much to look at. I know I've said this before, but when it comes to getting picky kids to eat healthy options...presentation is everything. So I urge you to take the time and ball these better than I did. Mine resemble more of a plop of meat ice cream ;) These taste awesome as leftovers cold or reheated. I like to make these on a Monday, and then I consider them our emergency dinner for the moments when we are too exhausted to cook or unprepared. Which is basically every night. These really are a meal all wrapped in a tiny ball. Add some carbs to it if you wish, maybe some sweet potatoes, roasted cauliflower, or carrots, and you have a meal! Have a great weekend guys!


Sunday, January 29, 2017

Backstory

Most of you who know me personally, know that I am a pretty "crunchy" person. Crunchy...aka hippie. (I draw the line at dreads...but I have seriously contemplated it with the amount of postpartum hair loss I've suffered) With this one, unfortunate word that I just used to describe myself, let me tell a little of my back story before you judge me. I know the stigma that comes with "crunchy moms". I am ok with it. I landed myself in this category for a darn good reason and am not ashamed to share it. Many of the major choices I make for myself and my family are based on this story right here. I get a lot of judgement and flak for the way I choose to raise my kids, but this story is what a lot of people don't realize before they judge me. I never want my kids to find themselves in the position that I found myself in at such a young age.

It goes back as far as my high school years (it actually goes back way further than this, but this was the age that I started to feel the effects of the way I had lived my life-think a giant cinnabon. because that's pretty much the main food group of my entire childhood. Bread, sugar, more bread with some sugar sprinkled on top of that ;). I would wake up with very sore wrists that never seemed to get any better, but I just assumed that it was the way that I had been sleeping with my wrists tucked under my chin. My parents never thought anything of it, and honestly...I didn't either! I was seventeen. Seventeen year olds don't get disease. Fast forward a couple years, I was only a freshman in college and my joints would hurt so bad that I was taking naproxen every day just to function. I took this medicine every day for over a year. Fast forward a little bit more, and I began to feel the effects of taking too much NSAID. I won't go into detail (as to spare people who grow faint like my husband), but it was obvious that my body couldn't handle all of the pain meds that I was taking. So I backed off from taking it daily and saved it for the days when I knew I'd have to be on my A-game like school and work. This method managed to get me by for a few years, but it grew increasingly worrisome to me as I wasn't finding any improvement. Deep down, I knew that this wasn't normal. I couldn't even dress myself! I would wake from the pain in the night. Something had to be wrong with me. I made an appointment with a rheumatologist and waited for the diagnosis.

I received the diagnosis around my 23rd birthday. Me and some of my closest friends and family were headed out to Las Vegas to celebrate when I got the phone call.
My beautiful mother and myself on the day I received the call from the rheumatologist

I had prayed for a long time that no matter what the diagnosis was, that God would give me the strength, faith and attitude to overcome whatever it was. The doctor told me over the phone that it was rheumatoid arthritis. It stung to hear. I was 23 and felt like I was 93. When I should have felt like I was in my prime, I only saw a future full of pain and fear. I didn't want to accept this. The doctor recommended a medication that I would need to take for the remainder of my life and the thought of that just straight up scared the crap out of me. I expressed my fears with her and she understood, especially because I was hoping to get married and have babies in the near future. My doctor and I agreed to continue on the path I had been on (aka-tough it out) and just keep checking in for evaluation.

I have a super high tolerance for pain, and managing the pain of the RA was doable for me. Unfortunately though, this wasn't my only issue. In 2011, I graduated from dental hygiene school and landed my first job. I was thrilled, but I was literally disabled. The pain from my RA and the irritable bowel symptoms I had been having for over 5 years progressed every single day. (again, sparing you the details. You're welcome). It was to the point that I literally could not continue to live a normal life anymore.

Wanted to share a picture from my graduation from dental hygiene school, but couldn't resist sharing this one instead. Again, you're welcome ;)


I was desperate to find relief so I made an appointment with my physician who literally didn't care about anything other than concealing  my symptoms. He gave me a medication to conceal the IBS and help me get through my days. I left that appointment feeling immensely frustrated and confused. He didn't consider investigating why I was going to the bathroom 10+ times a day or that my hands hurt so bad I would rather just chop them off. Didn't he care WHY my young body was suffering like this?? I knew there had to be someone out there that could help me. I sought out a specialist. 

Next appointment I made was with a gastroenterologist. He suggested Chron's or Celiac disease and followed that up with a colonoscopy. The joy. The procedure revealed nothing other than massive amounts of inflammation (shocker) and a blue color seen throughout. He was surprised in seeing blue and asked if I had anything blue to eat prior to the procedure....UM YEAH. The gallon of blue gatorade you suggested I mix with the gallon of Miralax, are. you. kidding. me. I had never felt like I wasted more time and energy in my entire life. I left that appointment relieved only for the fact that I could eat food again and never have the procedure done again until I'm much older. He summed up his findings with this, and I'm literally quoting him on this one..."Well, you're clear from any major bowel disease, but you have a significant amount of inflammation. I will admit, there are many unknown/undiscovered diseases that start in the gut, and we categorize these mysterious cases like yours as irritable bowel disorder simply because we haven't been able to figure out the cause yet. I am sorry, but there are medications that we can offer you to help you with this." I just had to laugh because of all that I endured, all the doctors I had seen and tests that I went through; this was the final diagnosis. I believe this is where most people give up. They take the medicine, without question and suffer the rest of their lives. Maybe it was because I thought I was too young for this sickness, or because I am very strong-willed and stubborn, but I was on a mission to figure this out. I refused to stop here.

So I continued to suffer for years until God guided me towards a more natural path. He placed people in my life, and moments in my life that led me to this state of healing. I can't explain it any other way, other than I just knew there was a way out of this. I wasn't going to accept living the rest of my life in this decaying state. 

I chose to see a chiropractor who practiced nutritional wellness. The first appointment was comparable to voodoo in my mind. I wanted to laugh, actually, I did laugh to most of what he was doing to test my body. (but kept my words to myself) Honestly, I had nothing...absolutely nothing to lose at this point. Modern medicine had truly failed me. 

I was a newlywed who wanted so badly to become a mother. To be a mother that could live a long, healthy, strong life with her amazing husband and future kids. I expressed this deepest desire of mine to the chiropractor and he just looked at me and flat out said, "This will be no problem. It will take time, but we will heal your body." I was ecstatic inside to hear this news. I wanted to hear this so badly and to believe it even more. For the first time in years, I had hope.

My husband and I (before we discovered a life of health)


He started with adjustments and eliminating major food groups (key=GRAINS, GRAINS, GRAINS). It wasn't even a couple of weeks and I started to feel dramatically more energetic. I could make it through my day at work without hogging up the one bathroom we had. I could get myself dressed in the morning without crying. I could walk in the mornings without limping like a hobbit. 

Without going into great detail of the exact regimen he put me on (because it was anything but simple...but SO worth it), I can say that we healed my body naturally. With real food. Real herbal supplements. No expensive medicines with side effects that had the potential to produce an alien-baby. No more NSAIDs. No more physicians looking at me like I was crazy and writing scripts for bulls!t medications. 

I went on to have a very healthy pregnancy and natural delivery. I went on to become a strong mother and wife. I went on to have another baby. I am nearly a decade older from when I first started this entire journey and can say that I feel 100x better today than I did in my late teens/early twenties. If I had to sum up what I learned from all of this, it would have to be that I never gave up. I'll never give up. I will always fight and keep my faith no matter what life throws at me. If I put my mind to something, I am going to seek to finish it. I will do this for myself, for my wonderful husband, my precious kids, and my amazing God. I will do this to set the example for my kids and pray that my story will shed light for someone else who may unfortunately find themselves in similar shoes. If you are there, I encourage and pray that you keep pressing on and never give up! There is hope and there is a way to find a more healthy life. It's going to take time, and work, but it is possible!